Thursday, July 2, 2026

Family bond n kinship ties

As thirdgeneration kids of migrant parents born in China,i dont feel nostalgia recalling my ancestral roots .Why do migrants of Asian diaspora feel sentiments when recalling family.bonds n kinship tie? i speak ancestral language,follow chinese lifestyle,festival and adopt cultural values but i dont feel strong attachments to my unseen and unknown relatives from China is it cómmon for third generation migrants to assimilate into country of birth?how do american born Chinese feel? do they feel alienated from their ancestral roots?

Sunday, June 28, 2026

Heritage site in Sri Carcosa

my girl pal of over 50 years had lunch at Sri Carcosa.it was nostagic having a guided tour at the imposing british colonial mansion perched on the hill top ovér looking kl skyline.this was the site 15 vips signed the declaration of independence.the building is well preserved and restored.the meal of cendol,mini b burgers n duck rice was yummy and my pal generously gifted cookies and bracelets she bought from holiday in Penamg.we had a good sunday chatting and catching up with pur lives

Saturday, June 13, 2026

Next Friday is duan wu festival or dragonboat festival

savouring sweet alkaline zong zi or rice dumpling with red bean paste.yummy< jelly agar sweet zomgzi or dumpling with peach cubes and red bean paste.trendy filling traditional triangle shape. dinner is steam shrimp in ginger wine,steam minced chicken patty with preserved vegetable,stir fried lettuce and sweet. n sour eggplant.
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Sunday, May 31, 2026

Wesak day

today i pray at home altar for health and wellness for this year.also pray for pet kitty to recover from illness of vomitting. then visited bandar utama buddhist vihara to bathe buddha statue,offer floral poesy and light an oil lamp.of coúrse the good. vegetarian lunch was yummy. buti will skip temple hopping n float procession as its too hot n tiring.may you receive peàce and compassion on this auspicious day.may you be blessed with good health and sleep well. namo tassa bhagavato,arahato,sama🙏sambudhasa

Saturday, May 30, 2026

Eve. Of Wesak

thefull moon is so bright on eve of wesak.sadhu 3x

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Herta tales soulmates drawn stories about us

Lychee feí zi xiao or the concubine smiles

i love the fresh lychee imported from China i cant resist the sweet juicy flesh and small seed of fei zi xiao with jade green and red skin.i remembered when in the late 1980s when i visited Guangdong village of xiyap yunpeng county,my relatives bought lo mai chee or glutinous rice lychee that had deep red skin,juicy flesh and small seed. now with cold storage logistics supply chain,i get to feast on juicy lychees in summer no wonder the chinese emperor pampered his concubine yang gui fei so that he ordered couriers to send her favourite lychee up north to Beijing for her to savour her craving.thats why its name is fei zi xiao.noe with train and canal links established between southeastasia and south china the chinese can enjoy durians while we feast on lychees n mandarin oranges.